September 30, 2007

How to keep your hands warm

Rainy afternoons and chilly almost Spring nights are for making things:
Sweeney's Christmas stocking - a Birds of a Feather pattern, which will eventually look like this:

I've had to do it on lighter linen than the pattern says because it just isn't available here. Funny - the name of the correct dark brown linen is Sparrow. I've also used plainer floss - the verigated floss was very expensive and I had to order it from the US, and found it didn't look as good as the plain DMC colour. I'm hoping to get this done for Christmas this year, if there are just a few more rainy days that I plonk myself down on the couch with it. I also have to find someone to sew up the finished result for me, as I don't sew (yet).

September 28, 2007

Jeepers, I didn't ...

Make a list this week. *hand slap*
Here's an early list to make up for lack of last week ...
  • sell stuff at Craftwerk on Saturday night - 5-9pm at Wesley Hall on Taranaki Street. Be there or miss out on crocheted vaginas.
  • do my first post on Wellingtonista and do witty profile alluding to what a cool gal I am, no mention of baby, please.
  • do something with the vast quantities of grapefruit Postie's (quite wonderful, and I'm not just saying that to suck up) parents brought down for us.
  • do something really fun, like hours and hours of embroidery on the couch with L Word dvds or Sopranos or something. Bliss.
  • insist the Postie go for a mountain bike ride, or go for a beer with friends, or something other than do endless chores
For the moment, I am not going to worry myself about Tiny's room, and it's a relief. I was getting all het up about the amount of hand-me-downs and space and getting far too ahead of myself, so until I finish work at Christmas, Tiny's room is the Postie's workroom. What baby?

Ooo - have had very hip haircut. Will post pictures soon.

September 27, 2007

Wellingtonista, baby

Through stalking Jo Hubris, I've been invited to write for a Wellington-centric website called The Wellingtonista. I feel like I've been invited to the cool kids' table, and it's kind of exciting, but weird at the same time. I know a few of the other writers - Martha, Sue and obviously Jo, but have no idea what other cool kids I'm sitting next to. I'm a wee bit scared of posting something on there and looking like a dick. It's like a kind of stage fright.

However, I will get over it. I'm sure I wouldn't have been invited if they didn't think Special K and her blog rock ... I'll just have to think up something awesomely Wellingtonesque to write about - what about how all bus drivers seem to have PMT at the moment, or how Craftwerk is on this weekend?

September 24, 2007

In da hood

We've been in our new place a week, and it's bonne. We get all day sun, starting with the master bedroom, and it swings around the lounge into the dining room and kitchen, ending with the spare room and Tiny's room. It's glorious and just what I wanted.

There's a lot about the new place that reminds me of where I grew up - in Glorious Tokoroa. If you don't know where or what Tokoroa is, let me give you a little lesson. It's roughly half way between Hamilton and Taupo, and is a timber town. It smells bad because of the mill a few kms out of town where most people work, but I couldn't smell it until well into my 20s. It's small and built mainly in the 1950s, so there are no lovely old villas or much history to the place at all. I lived in two houses that I can remember - Arthur Street and Kent Street. Arthur Street was a lovely apricot state house with a massive backyard that I traipsed around in, where I watered the beans for hours and hours and where Dad taught me how to grow pumpkins. When I was 11 we moved to Kent Street which was just down the road from the Tautaris - a rather impressive collection of beneficiaries and pregnant girls who seemed to have visitors night and day and when I look back on it, the martiarch of the household who had a squillion grandchildren, was probably only about the age I am now. In both streets, one of my main hobbies was riding around aimlessly on my bike with the neighbourhood kids, climbing front fences and trees, rollerskating down what seemed like steep driveways, and using clothes-lines like jungle gyms. We would truck around the streets till it got dark in the summer, then our mothers would call us from back door steps like they were calling their cats.

Our new street, which is a cul-de-sac, has that feeling to it. The first evening I came home from work, the last of the sun was still warming the asphalt and the kids from number 17 were roaring around the end of the street on bikes. I don't know how many there are, but there were lots of sizes. Yesterday, as Ange was leaving, I had the car door open to put Sweeney into his car seat when one of them sidled up. I'm guessing he was about three.

"Is that your house?" he said, pointing to next door.
"No, that's my house," I said.
"Oh. Where's your mum?"
"My mum doesn't live here."
"Oh. Is that your baby?"
"No, this is my nephew Sweeney."
"Oh."

A few seconds while he looks Sweeney, who is holding out his hand to the boy.

"Is that your house?" he says, pointing to our house.
"Yep."

He and Sweeney lock eyes and talk baby for a little while. It's very cute, but Ange has to go, so she says see you later to the wee boy. As he walks off, he points to the house next door and says "Is that your house?"

His said his name was Say, or something, I dunno, and he was very cute. The postie has already made pals with a Chinese man across the road called Ving who built his own shed out of concrete, and a ginger cat has been frequenting Charlie's food bowl via our catflap. It reminded me of how everyone's yard was everyone's, fences meant nothing, and neighbourhoods were for exploring.

Too much baby talk

I've been told from on high that this blog has disintegrated into too much baby talk. *sigh*. I'll have to think of something else to write about.

*thumbs twiddling*

September 21, 2007

A little Friday check-in

Every once in a while it's good to reflect on the truly awesome things in life. I'm in an extraordinarily good mood, brought on by the golden weather, the peanut slab I just ate and the fact that it's nearly home time on a Friday.

Today I'm happy that:
  • I can feel my wee boy rummaging around in the bottom drawer
  • My new home is sunny and warm and cosy
  • All I have to do tonight is curl up with the Postie and eat his delicious nachos
  • My friends Jo and Ivan have had their second baby, a little girl called Pepper, and both Jo and Pepper are well
  • We bought a stroller in good nick in our price range this morning
  • Sweeney and Ange are going to visit this weekend and help sort through clothes for Tiny
  • I've beaten my fizzits addiction, and haven't eaten the entire bag Nigel gave me last weekend in one sitting
  • I'm not sick, or too tired, or have leg cramps, or a sore back, or varicose veins, or any of the horrors that apparently await me in the third trimester
  • I have a new computer at work with a very quiet keyboard that is a pleasure to type on, and I can watch video clips on the BBC, Sydney Morning Herald and Stuff like my job kind of requires I do
  • Almost everything that people have bought from me on Trade Me has been sent off
  • Almost all the chores on this week's list have been done
  • Did I mention my new house is sunny and warm and cosy? And there's a cute boy waiting at home for me with dinner?

September 17, 2007

Is it Monday already?

Oh boy, moving house is tough. I had envisioned it all being over by now, but we are still dealing with boxes and mess and squeezing things into other things. The Postie moved boxes on Friday, the movers came on Saturday, we packed up other stuff on Saturday afternoon, and were taken out to a divine dinner at Logan Brown by the Postie's sister Elizabeth and her fiance Nigel - more about that later. We both slept fitfully amid the chaos on Saturday night, figuring out where everything was going to go. Sunday we cleaned Moffitt Street and kept unpacking at the new place, and when at 5pm Sunday when we were at the supermarche doing our first flat shop, I think I fell asleep while waiting in line. When the cooked chicken we had bought could not be found in the shopping bags on arriving home, I had a rather shrill 'exorcist' moment on the floor of our kitchen ... (luckily the Postie checked the car and found said chicken had fallen out of shopping bag, crisis averted.)


In an effort to get things done this week I am making my list a day early. It's rather boring housie things I'm afraid ... yawn:

  • get Tiny's room empty of our stuff to make way for cot and bassinet and chair
  • pick up cot and bassinet
  • finish the toe of Sweeney's Christmas stocking (which I should show y'all someday - it's embroidery on linen and at the rate I am going will be finished for Christmas 2010.)
  • visit Rose on Sunday morning
  • set up rent and joint account payments
  • continue hunt for good-sized tall boy for tiny boy's room
  • cook the Postie something spectacular for dinner on Friday or Saturday night
  • continue to grow baby
  • do yoga!
  • let Charlie out to peruse his new domain - hope he doesn't try to find his way back to Moffitt Street via the gorsey hills behind our new place
  • do some posts about things that aren't boring - bullet point lists of jobs do not an interesting blog make. I intend to post about Tiny's room as that takes shape, and the gloriousness that is our master bedroom...
  • Oh - and go to work and manage to belt out glorious stories for Saturday papers without falling asleep on my keyboard. Easy.

September 13, 2007

Things that increasingly fat pregnant women think about ...

Well, I can only speak for myself.

But anyway:
  • How many fizzits is too many? Three or four packets?
  • Why is Tiny moving around so much? Is he trying to tell me, yes, I love fizzits, bring more down here woman! Or he is actually saying enough with the fizzits already. My kingdom for a piece of fruit!
  • If Tiny is kicking a lot now, what will the next four months be like when his feet and everything are bigger? Will I ever get a good night's sleep again?
  • How come, if I didn't enjoy being sandwiched in bed with my fella, the cat and Tiny the football star the other night, does it upset me when the Postie wants to sleep in his own room, ultimately meaning both of us will be better rested?
  • Why did reading an article on a premature baby have me blubbing behind my monitor yesterday, when I actually read the story a year ago and was unmoved by it?
  • Why isn't my hair more lustrous like all the books say it should be?
  • How come all boys' names suddenly seem so bland or over-the-top zany or taken by someone else?
  • Why can't I stop eating?
  • Do I look pregnant in this outfit, or just fat?
  • What is that never-felt-before burning/cramping/pulling/bloopy feeling in my abdomen?
  • Will I be a good parent?
  • Will Tiny be as good looking and loved by all as Sweeney?
  • What if (enter completely ridiculous statement here)?
It's exhausting. Perhaps another packet of fizzits will make me feel better...

September 12, 2007

T is for Tuesdays

This week I will:
  • finish packing and move house
  • unpack the packed up stuff at the other end
  • give Cam the citrus I haven't used, to make his wicked marmalade with
  • pick up cot and bassinet
  • get Rhiannon those felt colours
  • finish pasting up clippings book
  • send off more trade me winners
  • finish story on Trainland
  • finish the toe of Sweeney's Christmas stocking
  • see my friends for the first time in ages
  • organise the catflap removal and installation
  • spend lots of time cuddling and coddling Charlie who will have his world turned upside down for the fourth time in less than two years

September 11, 2007

A de-lurk ...

Howdy readers,

Thought it might be time for a de-lurk ... I know you're out there, you anonymous commenters. Show yourselves!
This is me ... I'm a 34-year-old journalist and aspiring crafter, world's greatest aunty and soon to be mother. I like eating anything French, fizzit lollies and crab sticks. My current obsessions are The Sopranos, making a book for my flatmate Chris out of vintage children's books and making a Christmas stocking for my nephew Sweeney. I am a compulsive list maker, I hate stereo cords and I'm never far away from a hot cup of tea.

Now tell me about you ...

September 10, 2007

September 06, 2007

Sport billys

In 2000, my workmates Rata Sidwell (top left), Raewyn Humphries (top right) and I (front and centre) did the Kapiti Women's Triathlon. We all worked at what was then known as 2D but these days is called Sauce. Rata did the accounts, I looked after camera crew bookings and took care of the boys, and Raewyn was an editor. It was a really choice place to work - nice space to work in, good people, fun projects, and sitting next to Rata there was always something lively to talk about. I was really really upset when the Two Ds who ran the place decided to sell off my arm of the company - the crewing business - but a raucous night of karaoke sent me off and whenever I come across the photos from that night I laugh at how choice it was. We were all pretty good mates - Raewyn even married the uber-choice Aaron, a fellow editor, and there were quite a few romances going on behind the scenes. Rata just emailed me this morning asking if I wanted to catch up with a few old faces, and sent me the above pic of us after the triathlon. To do the race, I borrowed an old Avanti from Rata that weighed about 5.6 tonnes, and did basically no training in the lead-up apart from biking to and from work when I could be bothered. Over that coming winter I biked to and from work every day as a bet with another workmate Hannah, and at the end of the year we put two teams of 2Ders into the Lake Taupo Cycle Challenge. Which was ace. Especially getting drunk that night. I was 27, having a long distance relationship with Craig in London, and living in Newtown with three girls. How things have changed.

Never squeeze a baby

Poor Leo. It's a wonder he still likes me. I don't think I've ever looked quite so evil in a photo. Or seen Leo look so terrified.

Luckily, Leo has made it through to a champion 17 months and looks a picture of good health and happiness in the top of this photo. Despite being parked in the back seat with Sweeney and his nostrils, which I think he inherited from me ...

September 05, 2007

Fizzy lollies make the world go round

I think I'm having my first craving. I can't get enough of Fizzits - those tasty little sherbert lollies that kind of tingle on your tongue. They are SOOO good. The only place I have been able to find them are in the snack box that we keep in a filing cabinet drawer here on the fourth floor. I love them so much I left a note for the man that refills the snack box requesting more, and he left me FOUR glorious packets of Fizzits that I should have polished off by this afternoon. The packets are smaller than the one pictured, of course. I would never be that gluttonous. However, I am eating for two these days and my midwife did say I should keep my blood sugar levels up. Hee.

I lured the Bram into my room last night to feel Tiny's nightly can-can revue, but Tiny got all shy. So Bram, whose hands were several degrees below freezing by the way, tried to rouse Tiny by shouting 'Bay-beee!' at it. Tiny continued to be coy, until about two minutes after Bram had stomped back to her room.

September 04, 2007

Ok hot mamas and papas

I need some help. It's not glamourous, but these questions need to be asked. I'm in a nappy dilemma. It's not something I would thought I would EVER care about, but suddenly, as I am looking down the barrell of dealing with poos and wees for the next coupla years, the question of nappies has become all important.

Of course, being a white liberal right-on kind of girl (and skint) I'm going to use washable nappies. But which ones? I'm told the old fold-them-yourself nappies aren't as absorbent as disposables, and they look like such a hassle, but there's a whole load of cloth nappies out there with names like Funky Bunz and Eco-bots that are shaped and easy to put on and washable. Problem is, they're a bit of an investment to get started and I don't want to get ones that turn out to be duds.

What do you mamas and papas recommend?

Tuesdays

I'm loving that the weeks are flying by, as it means we get ever closer to meeting Tiny, and closer to the warmer weather. My mum rang this morning mistakenly thinking that today was The Big Day when we have the 20 week scan and Tiny reveals what's hiding between its legs (and we can stop calling it 'it'), but it's another unbearably exciting six days till then. Tiny has moved from wee flutters to trampolining in my belly, a little treat it puts on for me at night before I go to sleep.

So it's Tuesday and that's list day. So here it is:
  • finish updating clippings book with clippings still on my shelf at work - I did half on Sunday while watching The Sopranos. It was an awesome example of multi-tasking.
  • bake something.
  • go to podiatrist to fix my mangled post-100km walk toenails. You don't wanna know.
  • have 20 week scan.
  • do more work on Bram's diary and Sweeney's Christmas present.
  • do yoga - a perennial list item.
  • take stuff to the Sallys.
  • pack china and snowglobes ready for moving.

I'm loathe to take on anything more at the moment until we get settled in our new house. And then it will be full on poster-making, tiny hanger-buying, second hand furniture scouting, nest-o-rama. I find getting little projects like that done enormously satisfying.

September 02, 2007

Moffitt Street memories





I took these pictures one morning last summer when we had just moved in to our flat in Vogeltown. The sun comes streaming in the front room windows, across the coffee table where I ate my breakfast and did the crossword. I was walking to work most days in training for the 100km walk, or biking to work in my jandals. Then winter came, and Tiny, and morning sickness and everything changed. Now it's spring, and I'm over the morning sickness, and the sun is back. But we're moving out in two weeks, up the road and round the corner a bit. To our new prospective homes and futures. Me and the Postie to our cul-de-sac whare, and Chris in with friends nearby. It'll be awesome, but I'll miss Moffitt Street mornings.